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So, there’s a good chance that you ended up on Find Adult Flings because you’re interested in doing some online dating. If not, then maybe you are just here for the curiosity of how adult online dating works. If you are interested in learning from my experiences, whether you are a man, or a woman, dating.bestadultflingsites.com is the best online adult dating resource you will find on the Internet.  I blog about my personal experiences so you can find the top adult dating websites that fit your needs.  As a male, it’s written from my standpoint, so women, please don’t feel like I’m putting you down when I say I want to help men “hook up” – I’m hoping this dating site guide can help the women out there too who seek the same thing.  When hooking up casually, discretion is always a big thing and I totally get that.

I’m also an aspiring writer, so you’ll find me reacting to a lot of the celebrity dating gossip.  I like to keep my content fresh and my readers entertained. If you enjoy my material the best compliment I could get is a Tweet, Facebook Share, post on Reddit, or just a mention on your blog.  Thanks in advance!

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The site is filled with all the best hookup dating sites ranked from best to worst. I’ve spent a lot of time over the last two years meeting local women and I’m saving you your time and money wasting countless hours signing up for the worst sites out there to meet someone. I’ve joined about 30 of the purported best sex dating sites and decided to share each of my experiences on them with you!  Some were epic adventures, and some were just letdowns.  I don’t hold anything back, because I hate when people are ripped off, so I try to help everyone out to avoid that.

Do You Have Trouble Hooking Up Like Minded Adults looking for casual fun?

Do You Lack the Time to Hang out in Places where adults meet? 

I PERSONALLY answered yes to these questions as recent as three years ago.

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Learn from my mistakes so you can hook up more affordably and without any drama.

That was before I found the dark, yet rewarding, underworld of adult online dating.  It’s not advertised in main stream media, and it’s not an obvious place people look at when they think of hooking up with women, but speaking from experience, this WORKS WONDERS.  I’ve become somewhat of an urban legend with my friends and peers because I always tell stories of the women I’ve been hooking up with.  Not just ordinary women, but women who are looking to get down.  I’d never meet these women if it wasn’t for the Internet, and what I’ve learned along my three year journey of internet dating website memberships is nothing short of a Master’s Degree in how to get laid in this day and age of the digital era.

Why I Publish This Information

I built this website for two main reasons:

1)  The first reason was to share my personal online dating experiences with the world to help guide others in the right direction when it comes to finding a hookup online in your local area.

2)  The second reason I built this site was because I wanted a place to publish all my tips and tricks for meeting girls online. Now, I’m no pro but I’ve been around the block and you can say that joining these sites and hooking up with people is a skill that I have slightly mastered. That being said, I’ll be writing daily blog updates to share all my success stories and failures with you so that you don’t make the same mistakes that I did.

What To Expect From My Adult Hookup Site Reviews

I’m going to be continuously ranking and reviewing my experiences on every adult dating site that I’ve joined. I’ll be providing recommendations for you if you want to join the top sex dating sites that are out there.

You can also expect that I’ll be writing a lot of adult online dating tips to help you reach your goals.  I recommend coming back as frequently as possible to get my daily blog updates. They will only help you reach the level of online dating success you’re trying to achieve…in other words, if you want to get laid more, I suggest you read the blog updates I write.

How I Ranked Each Adult Dating Website

As mentioned before, I did my research, joined a bunch of sex dating networks and ranked all the sites based on a few factors. I took into consideration the price of joining the sites, how user friendly they were, how hot the girls were, how many girls were in my local area, how mobile friendly the sites were, the communication tools each had and the success I had with hooking up with girls and a few other factors.

A new approach to online dating?

Something new I’ve been doing is using sugar daddy dating websites.  I’m not a rich old man, so before you assume that – just stop there!  I’m in my mid 30’s and use these sites to get a huge advantage to meet women who just want a taste of the good life.  The one I’ve had the most success with so far is a website called Seeking Arrangement.  Check that out, and my whole way I go about it.

The Top 10 Best Adult Dating Sites

Here are the most recent sites that I ranked as being the best adult dating sites to join if you want to hookup with a local in your area. These are in my personal opinion the best to join! Read each review and check them out. If you’ve had success with some of them please feel free to leave a comment or contact me. I like to get other opinions and I definitely love hearing success stories! Check out the reviews!

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My goal is to help men (and hey, why not women as well?) find the best websites to meet adults with the same goal – to find a fling online and then meet offline to see where it goes.  As time progresses, I’ll expand my list to the top 10 adult dating sites, and even get very secular with my reach.  You can see I’ve already done that with the sugar daddy dating category on the top of this page.

Please enjoy, be safe, and don’t do anything I wouldn’t do.

Below, and in the archives, you can read the wealth of information I’ve learned and put in my own words for the world to see.  Happy Online Dating!

Rapper Future Denies Dating Blac Chyna After Tattoo

Sometimes you have these crazy thoughts of loving someone so much that you want to prove it to the world. That’s what apparently happened when Blac Chyna got a tattoo of Future’s name on her hand. Are they an item?

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Future Denies Dating Blac Chyna!

By the sounds of it, I don’t think Blac Chyna and Future will be dating anytime soon in the near, well, future. LOL! She did the unthinkable, breaking one of the staple rules of hooking up with one another. She got a Future tattoo on her hand.

According to Daily Mail, Blac Cyna got this tattoo and showed it off to the world and when she did, Future denied her entirely. The saying, “think before you ink” is one that should never be forgotten and this is good reason why.

Now, her tattoo may just mean something else. It may not be a a symbol of her love for the rapper, but her keeping her eye on the future. Who the heck knows really. What I do know is that it’s getting awfully rowdy these days with girls hooking up with men and getting tattoos of the guy’s names. They must be crazy!

I saw Future not too long ago at the Austin City Limits Concert in Austin, TX. He was a boss and had girls all over him. If Blac Chyna thinks she’s got that on lock, then she’s got another thing coming.

Don’t ink yourself with someone else’s name. It’s a bad decision.

Threesome Hookup App 3nder Thinks It Can Help

Are you a, “more the merrier” type of person? Well, some people are and the creators of 3nder think they have a shot at being the ultimate threesome dating app. Will they succeed? I don’t know, but I’ll give you my opinion on it!

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Threesome Dating App Hits The Streets

Threesomes are awesome, right? It’s every man’s fantasy and then some. They want a threesome with two smoking hot chicks that are horny and want to hook up. This is not a shocker by any means. The new app 3nder thinks there’s enough demand in the market that they created an app for that. The dating app is actually pronounced, Thrinder, which is similar to the pronunciation of Tinder.

According to Tech City, there are investors that have confidence in this brand too. Enough to invest $500,000 into the new startup. Now, it may seem like a bad idea to some, but others have taken a liking to it so it seems. According to the site, they’ve got 1.2 million messages being sent per month by users and roughly 4 million swipes taking place. Now, don’t let this number scare you. It’s no comparison to some of the other casual datin apps out there but it’s worth an honorable mention for a new venture.

Do I recommend using it?

Honestly, it’s probably a far better idea that you stick with the basics when it comes to casual dating. I mean, sites like Fuckbook, Fling and the others on my top list. Reason being is that there are a significant amount of individuals that use those sites that want threesomes. Given that 3nder is not a site that caters to anything else other than threesome dating.

Stick to the big ones and you’ll get laid. Stay focused and do not lose sight of the main objective. It’s best to ignore the noise.

Media Mogul Rupert Murdoch Is Dating Jerry Hall

Even old men have affairs! The super wealthy media mogul, Rupert Murdoch is now rumored to have been having a secret romantic fling with Mick Jagger’s old girlfriend, Jerry Hall. Some people may be thinking, “WTF, I can’t believe this!” While others may be thinking, “Good for him!” At any rate, here’s the scoop.

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Rupert Murdoch Hooks Up With Jerry Hall

The Australian-American businessman and media mogul, Rupert Murdoch is no longer with his young Asian wife, Wendi Deng Murdoch. He’s worth 12 billion USD and he’s the man when it comes to getting laid, so it seems! According to the Sydney Morning Herald, the two of them will be the topic of conversation during the rugby World Cup next weekend. There have been rumors flying around about these two being together, but nothing confirmed popped up. However, I did learn that according to the Daily Mail, the two were spotted on Broadway on a date.

Now, I’m not sure what Mick Jagger has to say about all this news since his ex-wife is now dating someone 25-years older than herself. If I were Mick, I would give zero fucks because there’s a really good chance that Mick Jagger can bang anyone he wants still.

If you’re an older gentlemen that wants to hookup with someone, it’s not too late. In fact, it’s never too late. There are so many sites that connect older men with younger women. It’s called sugar daddy dating. Check it out!

Have a great Monday everyone!

Dating ADD: Overcome It and Get Laid This Weekend

Dating and ADD can be a deadly combination. It can lead to never getting lucky and keep your lonely night streak running for a long, long, time. Regardless where you are on the ADD spectrum, I’m going to share some tips that will help you focus on completing the task of getting laid.

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Too Many Choices?

My friends at Thrillist recently sent me an article on this and I have to give them credit for sharing some facts with me. According to a recent article published by Thrillist, many studies have been conducted which have proven that the vast number of choices we have today directly impact our ability to make selections when we have a lot of options.

This is something that I believe to be true. When presented with a limited number of choices we tend to make decisions a whole lot quicker. With 1000’s of dating apps and sites out there, people have a hard time focusing on only a few. This is one of the primary reasons why I’ve suggested that you only use the dating sites that I’ve personally ranked. Weeding out all the noise and distractions will help you stay focused on completing the task at hand…hooking up.

Avoid Oversaturation

Yes, there are tons of girls out there using dating sites, literally millions of users. A lot of sites are oversaturated with thousands of women. Yes, they are hot women too. I’m not saying that this is a bad thing. I’m just saying that the typical reaction to the environment is bad. Here’s what happens in these situations, you join a typical dating site or app and you think that because there are so many users, you end up passing up every person that’s not perfect. You’re spending too much time trying to find The One, when you should be only focusing on find One That Wants Sex! Stop swiping left and start connecting with anyone you can because if you’re still waiting to come across the Ariana Grande nude dating profile, you’re going to be waiting for a long, long time!

Let The Pros Find The Best Sites

My main suggestion to avoid dating ADD is to let the pros find the best dating sites for you. Don’t waste your own time finding the best hookup sites. Leave that work to folks like myself that have spent thousands of hours doing it like it’s my job. You focus on getting laid and I’ll focus on continuing to test and rank sites so you don’t have to! Here’s my suggestion for this fine Saturday. If you haven’t joined one of the top 5 adult dating sites listed above, do it now. Once you’ve done so, I want you to fill out your profile and bio page completely. I then want you to focus just on finding someone to bang. Doing so without by passing more than 5 people. Then start chatting with them. See if that leads to “getting it on.” I’m sure it will!

Bill Murray Dating Jenny Lewis Now?

I just got wind that one of the funniest actors alive is possibly dating a woman half his age! That’s right, I heard that Bill Murray could possibly be dating Jenny Lewis. The famous What About Bob actor is 65 years old and was recently spotted with Jenny Lewis at the tail end of a party that he threw. The party was to celebrate hs new movie release, Rock the Kasbah and it took place in NYC.

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Do you think this is a rumor or real?

Well, I’m here to report that it’s just a rumor! According to Jezebel, these two are in fact not dating. In addition to that, Bill Murray revealed to Howard Stern that he doesn’t have a girlfriend because he has other things he needs to take care of. In my personal opnion, I don’t think Bill Murray needs a girlfriend. There are plenty of horny girls that love older sugar daddies looking to hook up. If I were Bill, I’d simply find a few young women that want to bang and make an arrangement with them, then call it a day. He’s one funny guy!

Since, it’s Friday and I’m trying to get the heck out of here early, I’m going to keep this report shorter than usual. This should give you some time to search online for a hot date for the weekend. Find one, get laid and make me proud!

Casual Sex Dating Facts About Americans That You Didn’t Know

If you’re living in America like myself then there’s a chance that you’ll want to read this article. There’s a number of facts that I came across this morning after reading an article. These casual sex facts are ones that you likely didn’t know and wish you knew earlier! I have to give a shout out to Bustle for providing some of these awesome facts and doing the research.

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Casual Sex Facts In America

According to a casual sex survey done by Adam & Eve, the study shows that up to 70 percent of Americans have had a one-night-stand. It get’s better though, the average number of one-night-stands seems to be up to five occasions with nine percent of people in the study admitting that they’ve had over twenty one-night-stands. I honestly wish that this NSA ONS number was a lot higher. I can live with this number!

Sex Once A Week?!?!

33 percent of the individuals that were a part of the study revealed that they have sex once a week. This number is absolutely low AF in my opinion! I know that I get laid way more than this and it’s more like four times per week for me. I think if you use more than one casual dating site your chances of getting laid will probably increase dramatically too.

Orgasms During Hookups Aren’t High Enough

The study also revealed that only 22 percent of people reported having an orgasm while hooking up with someone in a casual sex situation. This honestly seems extremely low to me. I’ve been able to successfully get off a lot of women and I’m pretty sure I came too from what I remember. The people in this study need to step their game up!

Americans Are Satisfied With their Sex Lives

The study revealed that 48 percent of Americans were satisfied with their sex lives. I’m sorry, but the only good thing about this statistic is that most people are unsatisfied with their sex lives and they are hopefully looking to improve this. Any women looking to do so need to join every dating site that I use immediately!

American College Students Want More

I ‘m not sure how many college students were involved in this study, but the results show that college students do want to get off and have casual hookups. However, the majority are also hoping that the hookups lead to more than just sex. I don’t know about this one. All I wanted was to get laid and to party during college. I wanted to hookup and nothing more. I don’t know why college kids want anything other than that!

These are just a few of the findings that I was able to dig up from this study. The important thing to remember here is that we can change these numbers by encouraging others to have more sex with more people and more often. Help contribute to the cause today! We all want to change the world and that’s likely to lead to more people using hookup dating sites. All I have to say is…

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Former Escort Reveals Louisville Basketball Recruits Knew About Sex Parties

When an escort comes out to talk about one of the greatest college basketball programs of all-time, the world listens! A former escort named, Katina Powell, took the time to write about her experiences setting up sex parties for some of the high-profile basketball college recruits.

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Former Escort Katina Powell reveals Louisville Basketball Recruit Sex Scandal

She even speaks about some sex side deals with strippers and escorts to encourage recruits to come and play basketball at Louisville.

The problem? Well, in my personal opinion, since I love strippers and escorts, especially the crazy girls Las Vegas has to offer, I have to say there is no problem with any of this! I think it’s genius! Now, the truth be told, it’s a problem and not okay. I get that. But the real question is whether or not Rick Pitino knew about this.

According to ESPN, the woman at the center of the controversy claims that she was paid over $10,000 to bring women to various recruitment parties.

I’m not 100% sure what the status of all this is and whether or not anyone is lying. To be quite honest, I’m not really concerned with any of it. I think Rick Pitino is one hell of a coach and I commend him and the Louisville Basketball association for doing the same thing that every other college program does. They want recruits so they need to give them things, money, strippers and escorts are sometimes accepted.

Get paid, get laid and play ball!

Cheating Wife’s Snapchat Sexy Pics Get Her Caught

Yes, we all know that people cheat. There are cheating housewives all over the place. To be fair, I love to hook up with them on affair dating sites that I use. However, this wife was trying to be sexy for her husband and she got caught cheating. Here’s why…

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Wife’s Snapchat Reveals Man In Hotel Room

The cheating wife shown below was a lonely housewife that was on a business trip. She decided to send a few sexy photos back to her husband to show her love for him. The reaction she received from her husband was not what she expected! The first couple pics didn’t get her trouble. In fact, it may have seemed like she was being genuine and was simply trying to connect sexually while being so far away. Then she sent over that other snap chat shot of her in a thong and it revealed something shocking to her husband!

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Now if you look closely at that picture you’ll understand what I’m talking about. It turns out that according to The Chive, this lonely housewife was trying to be so cute, that she sent her husband a Snapchat of her wearing a thong, only she forgot about the guys boots that are seen in the bottom of the image. LOL! Now I don’t doubt that she’s cheating on him. That’s probably true, but she needs to not clean up her photo snapping skills and review them a little closer before sending them over to her husband.

I genuinely feel bad for her because her husband put her on blast with all these viral self shots. He’s asked for a divorce from her too supposedly. Had she decided to use an adult dating SnapChat site she could have sent and received as many selfies to other individuals besides her husband and without the worry of getting caught. I’d also suggest that she start using an affair dating website like Ashley Madison if she wants to get laid by someone other than her own husband. I hook up with married women all the time using this site and those similar.

One other thing I just have to mention, I don’t know where the hell this woman lives or what hotel she’s staying in but it’s definitely not five-star rated with that TV! Although it looks clean, I’m not staying in any hotel room with a technology from the 80’s.

I’ll end this article with a nice photo of the text from her husband…

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Gwen Stefani Laughs Off Dating Rumors

Gwen Stefani dating rumors about The Voice judge has been flying around lately. It’s no surprise that the No Doubt singer is sexy, single and super talented. Is she ready to mingle and hook up though or is it just a rumor? Find out who the rumors are about right here too!

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Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton Rumors

You know that Gwen Stefani recently split up with her husband. You also know that Blake Shelton got divorced not too long ago as well. These two spend an awful lot of time together and the rumors of them dating each other are still flying off the shelves! According to an exclusive interview on ET, she’s having fun with all the rumors of her hooking up with Blake Shelton and she’s been laughing off all of them! She supposedly laughed off any dating rumors and isn’t giving any information up to anyone that easily. I reported that Gwen filed for divorce with Gavin Rossdale months ago and I didn’t think that a new dating rumor about Gwen would be with another singer!

Now, I can’t blame Blake Shelton for wanting to start banging the blonde babe. I’d be all over that 24/7 if I worked with Gwen Stefani. She actually reminds me of a few girls that I’ve recently hooked up with on an adult dating website that I use. In fact, I love nothing more than to meet milfs that look like famous celebs. I spend time trying to message them early in the week, setting myself up for some weekend fun and hopefully getting the chance to bang them by Saturday night! You can do the same if you like beautiful moms like Gwen Stefani. As for whether or not Blake Shelton is giving it to Gwen, I don’t know, but I promise I’ll find out soon!

Amy Schumer Talks Dating ‘Live At The Apollo’

The funny Amy Schumer is a fantastic comedian. She’s got a comedian show that she’s making waves on and spent some time ‘Live at the Apollo’ recently. She’s won an Emmy, appeared on Saturday Night Live and now she’s talking dating and more during her shows!

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A popular tech site decided to share some of the best jokes that Amy Schumer has shared recently during her stand-up comic shows. I got a kick out of a few of them too. She’s got a few things to say about some topics that I jut love or love to hate! LOL

According to Mashable, Amy Schumer had this to say on dating during a show she taped on HBO in a stand up act…

“I’m so annoyed I’m single again. That means I’m going to have to go out with a new dude, and we’ll go to the movies, and he’ll be like ‘Do you wanna get a popcorn?’ and I’ll be like ‘Oh my god, I hadn’t even thought about it…That’s not the whole reason I wanted to come see this piece of shit movie.’ I’ve left so many movies right after the previews because I finished my popcorn.

And then he’s like ‘What size do you want?’ and I’m like ‘Small, look at me.’ Meanwhile, a small popcorn? That’s like taking one Avdil, like get the fuck out of here.”

I have to say, I love her attitude here! She’s gives zero fucks about any movie business or anything of that nature. She hates dating and meeting new people on mainstream dates. I totally get that! Honestly, I’d love to introduce Amy Schumer to some of the hookup sites that I use because I was once in the same boat. There’s nothing worse than going on a mainstream date with someone you’ve never met. I prefer to meet someone that isn’t serious and just wants to get the D. By the sounds of it, I think she’s more the type to want to find sex and call it a day. Actually, since Amy is so fucking hilarious and pretty decent looking, I would love to bang her. I bet she’d be a hilarious fuck!